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Bond Grrl icon BONUS VIDEO PODCAST: The Bond Girl and the Bartender Take On The Kentucky Derby (90MB)

Tuesday, April 29th, 2008

Yup - we’re at it again - Mr. Martini from BehindTheBarShow.com and I cooked up some vodcasts for your viewing entertainment.

This first one is in celebration of the Kentucky Derby, which will be running on May 3rd. First, I give some tips on horse racing and betting, then Mr. M. shows us how to make a mint julep. And just in case you want to expand the recipe to cover 30 of your best friends who you’re now going to invite to a Derby Party on Saturday, we also discuss how to make the mint julep party-style!

Watch out for more vodcasts coming to you soon - Mr. Martini and I have been having a ball learning about this new medium, and as you can see, we just love to hang out together!

Let me know what you think - either give me a ring on my Listener Feedback line 206.350.3537, leave a Comment here, or email to sandy[at]beabondgirl[dot]com.

 
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Bond Grrl icon Podcast 10: Feng Shui and Energy Re-Alignment In Your Home

Tuesday, April 29th, 2008

In Episode 4 we discussed Feng Shui as a method for ordering your life and how your life can be diagnosed as being out of balance using Feng Shui techniques. In this Episode Sandy runs through the mechanics for doing a Feng Shui clearing and energy realignment on your home. These two podcasts expand upon the topic of decluttering that she discussed in her first View From The Bay (ABC) episode last month, and the topic of using Feng Shui as an ordering method for your physical surroundings, to be discussed in View From The Bay (ABC) on May 5th. (The San Francisco Bay Area lead-in show to Oprah.)

Bagua floor plan


Click here for a printable Bagua map (from www.wsfs.com).

I know it’s difficult to “imagine” the bagua square just from my talking about it, so this should help.

If you have comments on this episode, please call the Listener Comment Voicemail at +1 (206) 350-3537, e-mail sandy [at] beabondgirl[dot] com or leave a comment below.

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Bond Grrl icon BONUS HYPNOTHERAPY PODCAST: Susan Bird (2 of 3)

Sunday, April 27th, 2008

In this podcast I am extremely honored to offer you another full induction from Master Hypnotherapist Susan Bird. The second of three full inductions, this session expands on the mythological reference of a Woman as a Lake. It builds from the clearing and cleansing you did in the first induction and utilizes your past as a springboard for your future, ultimately giving birth to your Manifestation Tree. 

If you have comments on this episode, please do call tHypnotherapist Susan BirdHypnotherapist Susan Birdhe Listener Comment Voicemail at +1 (206) 350-3537, e-mail doubleohsandy [at] yahoo [dot] com or leave a comment below.

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Bond Grrl icon Hypnotherapy Episodes - Duh…

Monday, April 21st, 2008

SO.  This weekend, I edited, matched podsafe music to, etc. etc. the 3 hypnotherapy episodes that Susan Bird wrote particularly for you as a member of my audience.

 Susan is a fan of my book (and one of my personal experts), and came up with the idea of doing the inductions to introduce a wider range of people to hypnotherapy. We got together to work on the actual “visuals” for the inductions, then she wrote them, and came up to my studio to record them. Then, I fixed’em up.

I was working on them quite a bit this weekend — pretty much both days. Sue had done a number of versions of each induction, so I had to listen through to each intro, body, end, etc. — and then pick the ones that seemed to work the best for me. So - duh - this means I listened to hypnosis inductions for about 16 hours, give or take, over the past couple says.

I am LOOPY today. I feel very calm, comfortable, but… um… let’s just say I really should not be “using heavy machinery.” I actually drove to meet a client at a coffee shop this morning, and drove right past the exit with a little drifting “ah… yeah… um… that’s the exit… going by… going right on by…” feeling.

I’m back home now. Better stay off the road for a while!

Bond Grrl icon BONUS HYPNOTHERAPY PODCAST: Susan Bird (1 of 3)

Sunday, April 20th, 2008

In this podcast I am extremely honored to offer you a full induction from Master Hypnotherapist Susan Bird. The first of three full inductions, this session uses the mythological reference of a Woman as a Lake to help you clear and cleanse your life to become fully present and ready to accept your best life going forward.

Hypnotherapist Susan Bird:

Hypnotherapist Susan BirdHypnotherapist Susan BirdHypnotherapist Susan Bird

If you have comments on this episode, please do call tHypnotherapist Susan BirdHypnotherapist Susan Birdhe Listener Comment Voicemail at +1 (206) 350-3537, e-mail doubleohsandy [at] yahoo [dot] com or leave a comment below.

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Bond Grrl icon icanhascheezburger.com…

Thursday, April 17th, 2008

Sallie Goetsch-rhymes-with-Sketch turned me on to this website - if you ever need a laugh, this is definitely a good place to get one.  Here are my two favorite latest photo postings:

humorous pictures
see more crazy cat pics

and

humorous pictures
see more crazy cat pics

Bond Grrl icon Potlach - Encouraging Generosity

Thursday, April 17th, 2008

I received some information the other day from the DailyOM that I’d like to share with you. I think it goes very well with my Decluttering and Green podcasts.

The article described the Native American tradition of the “potlatch.” It is a tradition that values generosity above all else.  A potlatch, which is a very grand ceremony, is an exercise in giving away material possessions, food, and money.

Apparently, it is not uncommon for the host of a potlatch to give away so much of their own resources to guests that the host ends up with nothing. However, the host can regain this wealth by attending potlatches as a guest.

 In this way, a potlatch validates generosity and encourages the flow of resources in a community, while at the same time continually reaffirming the importance of community ties.

This paragraph really made me sit up and take notice, because it reminds me of what I learned from “John Jr.” in my car ride with him, as detailed in Podcast 9 on “Living Green”:

“When we are held in a web of trust and connection, we can give generously, knowing that when it is our turn we will be supported. In this way, our whole sense of ownership becomes less individualistic and more communal. Resources are in an acceptable state of flux, moving within the community through the vehicle of the potlatch, which serves the additional function of strengthening community ties. This seems clearly preferable to isolating ourselves from one another and hoarding our resources.”

Isn’t it time to create a community in which a flow of resources happens in this way, in which we support one another to be generous?

The “Give Away Girls’ Nights” listed in my book is an example of a potlach - having fun, and giving away an object that is dear to us. By doing this, perhaps we can inspire someone there to throw their own potlatch. And so on, and so on - by starting this out, trusting, and loving, perhaps we could find ourselves with a tradition that supports and validates generosity even as it creates a safety net for leaner times.

Don’t just think about it - do it.

Bond Grrl icon More on Send Out Cards and Multi-Level Marketing (MLM) in General

Tuesday, April 15th, 2008

Hey You!

 I had a link to my Send Out Cards website in a previous blog. I know that a couple of you checked it out - hey, it’s a free couple cards you can send On Me, so why not have at it!

I have been in a few MLM (Multi-Level Marketing) companies in my day. It’s usually pretty frustrating, frankly. I would wind up paying the $100 or so over being a Wholesale Customer (it’s never a lot) to have the ability to “build a team” in the MLM.  (But usually, I was joining because I loved using the product, and believed it could benefit others.) Being a “Distributor” allowed me to benefit from not only someone buying the product from me, but also if they wanted to sell the product, too.

Unfortunately, usually I wasn’t all that keen ’splainin’ (Lucy) to folks how they could sell essential oils and vitamins, or face cream, or vibrators (yes!) and make themselves a business of it. It was a LOT of work going to folks’ houses, doing demos, and the like. Sure - I loved it, but I’m a natural ham and salesperson. Most folks would buy the products, but NO WAY would they want to schlepp lubricant and dildos around from house to house themselves…

The idea of MLM is that you make money when other people (that you have brought into the system) make money. But the whole “Ra-Ra” aspect, meetings, etc. just was not Me.

Anyway - a while back, I was introduced to the concept of Send Out Cards by a gal I know through networking groups. Then, I heard about it again, in a podcast that I listen to pretty often. So I decided to check it out.

I was pretty sure that the cards would be cheesy or flimsy, or they would go out with a postal “mark” not a stamp, or the promise of “uploading my handwriting” would be just so much hoo-ha.  Nope!  I have been SO SURPRISED!.

This company is the real deal. The cards are great.  They’re just like Hallmark cards (maybe even better). The whole system really does sell itself. You can store business or personal folks in the system, and then set up “Campaigns” to your clients (you know, like we’re all taught… “touch every client at least once every 3 weeks…”). Birthdays. Anniversaries. Spouses’ Birthdays. Kids’ Birthdays.  The calendar even pops up with “what’s up” for that week, when you log in.  If it’s a birthday and you click on it, you get a link to the birthday cards! It even stores a picture of every card you send and what you said in it attached to the “Rolodex card” for that person, so you never again have to wonder what you sent, when, and what you said!

You can even insert photos into the cards - and they REALLY look good, too. Heck, you can make your own “trifold” with photos in it and description! I just did one for a friend, where the front was her dancing at my wedding - the inside fold was her about 8 months pregnant - and the inside-inside was one of her son’s photos that she recently sent all of us on email (he just turned one).  This card cost me something like 40-60 cents to do (yes, with glossy, the photos, etc.) and 41 cents to mail. When she called me, she said that she hadn’t even printed out any of her son’s photos - so now she has my card of the photo that she took (the inside of the trifold) up on her fridge!!! 

In my other MLMs, there were usually meetings in person (that were always a pain to get to, and usually over some limp pizza). Ra Ra Ra, sell more vibrators! Ra Ra Ra! In this one, there are calls that you can call into (or not) once a week, that last for 1/2 hour. Afterwards, you get a transcript of the call (if you want to read it) and you can click on it to listen to it on a website, too. No fuss, no muss.

The transcript below is from my “upline” Jordan Adler . He is legendary - he wrote a book called “Beach Money” on MLM. This call was last night. I don’t think I could have said it better — so I will let him say it.  Again — if you’d like to try out the system — just click above or, of course, you can email me and we can walk through the “finer points” of it together. 

++++TRANSCRIPT OF CALL WITH JORDAN ADLER APRIL 14, 2008++++

SENDOUTCARDS IN PERSPECTIVE

What makes SendOutCards unique?
SendOutCards is like no other program in the Network Marketing Profession for two main reasons:
1. SendOutCards satisfies the greatest human craving . . . the need to love and be loved. Did you know that babies will die if they don’t get love as an infant? We carry that need throughout our whole lives. We feed the greatest human need. . . The need to love and be loved.
2. SendOutCards is the greatest personal development program in existence today. Not only do we have training that teaches people how to attract success, but we have an active system that will allow people to actually create the success that most other programs only talk about. Those of you that have been sending unexpected cards out each day know exactly what we are talking about

OUR TRACK RECORD - SUCCESS IN THE NUMBERS

SOC Revenues:

2004 - $250,000 2000 Distributors
2005 - $2.5 Million 4000 Distributors
2006 - $10 Million 18,000 Distributors
2007 - $24 Million 40,000 Distributors
2008 (projected) - $50 Million 100,000 Distributors

We are still a small Network Marketing Company. A big Network Marketing Company will do over 1 Billion Dollars per year and will have over 2 million Distributors in the US alone. It typically takes a healthy company 8 to 10 years to reach this point. We are starting our 5th year as a Network Marketing Company. The top earners typically will JOIN a company in its 4th-10th years. Can you imagine if one of them join your organization in the next few years? This can only happen if you are actively working your business.

A SIMPLE APPROACH

Many network marketing companies are built on a foundation of hype and fear of loss. I know this because each day I get calls from excited distributors that have been told by their uplines that they need to recruit ‘Jordan Adler’. Do you know that I am unrecruitable?? Here’s what they say in their e-mails and phone calls to me:

“Get in now or you are going to miss out!”
“We have by far the best program in the industry . . . you need to leave your company and join us.  Everyone is coming over!”
“Our compensation plan blows all the others away!”
“We will put people under you if you get in to our group!”

These are statements made by overzealous distributors that are in a scarcity mindset. Many companies and distributors build this way. This is the approach that gives our profession a bad name.

Here’s typically what happens . . . with very little actual interest in the product or service, people get nervous and sign up because they are afraid they are going to miss out if they don’t sign up right away. They get on an autoship and when their upline doesn’t fulfill on their promises by putting people underneath them OR when they realize that it’s not that they won the lottery (and they actually have to do some work), they drop the autoship and then everyone’s income goes down. At this point, people begin to lose their belief and they either quit our profession altogether and badmouth network marketing OR they look for the next manic opportunity.

Most of the time, implied in this is that somehow the company or the compensation plan is responsible for someone’s success (or lack of it) in the business.

In reality, there are many great companies and in most companies with a viable product and plan, anyone that puts in the work can make money and create a residual income. It has very little to do with the company. Yet some present it as if its the company and the comp plan that will determine someone’s success.

By the way, there are professionals in all companies. Usually they are the ones that have been around for a while and have built solid self-sustaining organizations. They are focused on great long term relationships vs hype and get rich quick approaches.

How are we different?
We believe in an abundant universe vs one with limited resources. We don’t need to hype anyone into joining us by promising them they will get rich overnight. In fact, those making the most money with us focus on how our service will enhance the life of another human being.

When I started with SOC, I had no interest in making any money. In fact, I was so excited about the service that I just started using it to send out thank you cards and thinking of you cards. My phone started ringing. I showed others how it worked, by having them send a card. A few were interested. I signed them up and taught them to do exactly the same thing. I started to imagine hundreds or thousands of people signing up just because it was such a cool service that everyone needed. My few people started to introduce it in exactly the same way.

We did no opportunity meetings. We did no online video presentations, we did no compensation plan trainings, we did no recruiting conference calls.

We simply show others the system by having them try it out (we coach them through sending a card) . . . if they like it, we show them how they can sign up and get $120 each time they train someone else to do the same thing. It’s that simple. Over and over again.

It doesn’t matter if someone is involved in another opportunity. In fact, that’s even better, because they have a great reason to use us to build better relationships, retain their customers and get more referrals. We don’t EVER try and get someone to stop what they are doing because we have a better deal.

There are many great opportunities in the marketplace!

We believe that you get back what you send out. If you send out positives on a daily basis, you’ll get back positives many times over. You reap what you sow. If you send out to give, the universe gives back!

Marketing is sending out to get.  Appreciation is sending out to give.

We believe that appreciation wins over self promotion every time. Think about it . . . when you get something in the mail that has a ’sales offer’ like ‘20% off your next tire rotation’, where does it usually end up? That’s right . . . in the trash.

When you get something in the mail that has a photo of some people that you know thanking you and telling you that you are appreciated, where does it end up? Usually on your desk or on your refrigerator door. As soon as you put a logo on it, it’s more likely to end up in the trash.

What’s the real opportunity here?

The greeting card industry is a 7.5 billion dollar industry and it has been flat for years. Hallmark and American Greetings have spent millions of dollars trying to get it to grow. Nothing has worked. The average customer spends about $3 per month on cards. What’s the usual process?

1. They think of someone
2. They go to the store
3. They burn an hour  & pick out a card (or not!)
5. They don’t have a stamp or a pen
6. The card gets put on the counter
7. 2 months later, the card gets put in a drawer and never gets sent

In SendOutCards, the average user spends about $49 per month on cards that are 1/5th the price. Why? Because we make it easy and inexpensive to send cards conveniently right from your desk. Our customers send cards every day! Think of someone . . . send a card. Think of someone . . . send a card. Can you see that by making it easier, we could turn a 7.5 billion dollar industry in to a 10 or 20 billion dollar industry?

Do you realize that we are only doing about 30 million dollars per year and we could build a billion dollar company just on the cards that DON’T GET SENT by Hallmark or American Greetings!!
So why is there no competition??
You would think after 5 years, we would have a few competitors. Well American Greetings and Hallmark both tried what we are doing and spent millions of dollars on advertising doing it. After a few years, American Greetings shut down their internet card (like us) division. Their cards were over $3 each, but you could send them through the mail just like us. The problem was, they couldn’t get anyone to use them!

Kody figured out that the only people that typically sign up with us are people that have sent a card because someone coached them through it (hint, hint).
Here’s the reason I believe we have no competitors. A few guys hear that there is this company called SendOutCards that’s doing well and growing like crazy . . . .they think, “Hey, there has to be some money in that!” [give to get] “We pick up a few machines, set up operations, come up with an even better plan and we’ll start taking people from them!” [Focus on scarcity]

So they go into the boardroom and figure out that it’s going to cost about 2 million dollars just to start up, and then they can’t figure out how we are making money at .62 per card! They figure that it will take them years to break even, so they throw in the towel. “Give to get” will never work for long term success.

IN SUMMARY

When I joined the company, we were doing about 200 cards per day on one small xerox machine. Cards were being stuffed into envelopes by hand (Jodi - Kody’s wife was doing this). Today almost everything is automated and we are typically doing about 30,000 cards per day. I envision 2-3 million distributors doing 1-3 million cards per day in the next few years.

The operation today is 40,000 square feet with 60 employees. We have 3 - $600,000 I-Gen Machines (there is only one other company in the world that has 3 and they are in Japan). It’s like Willy Wonka’s Chocolate Factory!

We have a unique culture that stems from Kody’s vision to make millions of people senders of cards. We understand the impact that we can have on the lives of those around us simply by expressing our appreciation in cards sent out on a daily basis. One card has the potential to change someone’s life. Millions of people sending out one heartfelt, unexpected card each day has the potential to change the world. When we have 300 people at a Treat ‘Em Right Seminar, each write a card, and then just a few of them read their cards, you can feel the energy shift in the room. This is something each of you must experience for yourself. This energy expanded out to millions of people has the potential to shift a generation and eventually move mountains.

Bond Grrl icon If You Use iTunes… Please Re-Subscribe!

Tuesday, April 15th, 2008

Sorry about this, folks…but we had to move the podcasts over to a new server, and the only finicky feed seems to be iTunes. If you are using iTunes, you’ll unfortunately need to unsubscribe, go back to the iTunes Store, and re-subscribe, then click on “Get All” because it seems as if the past 6 or so shows have gone into iTunes Ether.

Thanks All!

Bond Grrl icon More Bond Girl Coaching Cards, at your Service!

Thursday, April 10th, 2008

Hey grrrls!

Have you been downloading our Bond Girl Coaching Cards? Here is a link to the next set in the series. We plan to ultimately have a boxed set of all the cards for sale. But these are free for you to print out (instructions are on the printout). I’m very excited by these! They are my gift to you.

NOW, if the first couple look familiar, it’s because the last time I posted these, I wound up posting them without a new “Livin’ La Vida Bond Girl” card. This may all sound confusing, but this should get us back on track.  Let me know what you think!  Leave a Comment - I love hearing from you!

To enjoy the card, click this link, below!

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Bond Grrl icon Podcast 9: Earth Day - It Can Be Easy, Bein’ Green

Wednesday, April 9th, 2008

This podcast has some tricks to help you save Energy which is really what Earth Day is all about. These include green tips for around the house that are easy to implement. The beginning of the podcast also introduces you to a real fishing family in Sonoma County that are being devastated by the impacts of our current global situation.

The video podcast that I refer to in this podcast is The Story Of Stuff by Annie Leonard. You can go back and find where I blogged about it a few weeks ago, or just click the link here. It’s a bit long, but it definitely explains the whole manufacturing process and Planned Obsolescence — I think this would be great to show kids.

If you have comments on this episode, call the Listener Comment Voicemail at +1 (206) 350-3537, e-mail doubleohsandy [at] yahoo [dot] com or leave a comment below.

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Bond Grrl icon Youngest Bond Girl - 10 days old!

Monday, April 7th, 2008

Sophia at Easter doing her Bond Girl WrapSophia at EasterSophia at Easter - 10 days old

I posted my “70-something” Bond Girl ziplining and climbing pyramids last week… This week, here is “Spike” our youngest Baby Bond Girl — 10 days old!  Her mom, a Bond Girl in good standing, says that “Spike” is ready to get into her black leather diaper cover and Baby Blahniks and help save the world!

Bond Grrl icon Podcast Alley… Here We Come

Monday, April 7th, 2008

So, today I am sitting in very un-Bond-Girl-ish fashion with Stuff covering the dining room table. Wow! It’s Stuff I want to podcast about, Stuff I need to read for my law practice, Stuff that I have just been making little piles of around the house. (My poor James.)

One of the thangs I had to do was registered my podcast on Podcast Alley. Now, I have to remember to go have folks vote on it. (I’m lucky I remember to put in my email address and Listener Call-in Line… let’s see how THIS goes!) The only issue I have is that there really isn’t a great Heading for my podcast. I stuck it under Health, but that’s not really right. Society? Naw… Kids and Family? Um, no… Well, if you have any ideas and are a Podcast Alley person, Comment and let me know!

So, the instructions say “Post this code on your blog, and presto chango all magic will happen.” Well, maybe not in those exact words. But the following is the code they gave me to paste here, so here we go:

My Podcast Alley feed! {pca-fc383477edaec478c87fac3145b563b3}

Was it good for you?

(Not sure what all the letters are after the link above, but I posted EXACTLY what they gave me — so let’s see if Magic Happens now)

Bond Grrl icon Mid-70s Bond Girl Duz The UNESCO World Heritage Sites (Belize, Panama, Etc.)

Sunday, April 6th, 2008

Getting Ready to Go

Lamanai, Belize

Lamania, Belize

Just remember… Bond Girls are NEVER too old!

These photos are from my Bond Girl, “Nicole,” ziplining over the jungle (yes, WAY up in the air), and climbing one of the Mayan Pyramids (she’s the one in the blue shirt, at the top). Go, Bond Grrrrrrl!!!!

Bond Grrl icon Woman Crashes Her Car, Saves Her Morning Coffee

Sunday, April 6th, 2008

A 22-year old woman from Oakland, California landed in the waters of the Oakland Estuary after losing control of her car this past Thursday, per the Associated Press, but she never lost her grip on her morning coffee. She was apparently reaching for her cell phone around 6 a.m. when the car sped out of control and became lodged under a home on stilts on the water.

Car…sped…lodged…under a home…HELLO!

HOWEVER…

She got out of the car uninjured and holding her coffee cup.

Do I hear the Bond Theme playing gently in the background????

Bond Grrl icon Send Out Cards — additional information

Sunday, April 6th, 2008

Hey Ya’ll:

I am having more and more fun with Send Out Cards. This is the best business builder I think I have ever had.

I have set it up so that you can have a free gift account if you sign into:

www.sendoutcards.com/fempowerment

When you click through on the banner, you need to put in a User Name and a Password. I will give it to you if you write to me at DoubleOhSandy[at]yahoo[dot]com. Yes, what this means is that I am going to pay for you to send out a few cards, to see how it works.

I can also walk you through the templates, so you understand how it works. Wow, I’m finding something new every day!

More in a bit — I’m uploading photos that I took during the View From The Bay shoot, and sending them with little funny “taglines” to the camera man, Lisa Quinn, and the like. Did I say I was having fun???

xxoxoxox Solitaire

Bond Grrl icon View From The Bay (ABC) interview—we had a BLAST!

Friday, April 4th, 2008

Oh my goodness. Yesterday was the best day. I was on View From The Bay—I tried to upload the link for their viewer here, but I can’t get it to take… so here is the link to the show. (I am still going to list it under “Podcasts” — and maybe my sainted James can figure out how to actually make it post here so you won’t have to “go get it.”)

Make sure to watch both halves of the interview. They gave me 4 minutes, and then decided to give us 4 more after the commercial! We were having so much fun. This is my parents’ house, and a friend had come over to watch it Live with my mom. She said my mom basically freaked out when suddenly we were down in her closet! She said that she “Hadn’t had time to clean it” (As if!)

When you follow the link, you can see lots of tips that I gave them that I could talk about. If you’ve read my book, you know there are about 50 pages of tips! They picked some of them for me to show on the air, and have others posted on their website.

If, after you read this, you could put a comment on their website, I would sure appreciate it! I’d love to get invited back!